Saturday, September 24, 2011


I feel like I cannot be the only one who feels this way. Friendships were so "easy" in high school. Yes there was the crazy drama stuff that I am forgetting about now, but seeing my friends every day, going to class with the same people made it so easy to not only make friends, but keep those friendships going.

Since high school, my best of best friends moved 4.5 hours from home (5 hours from where I am now), I have moved to a town where I knew basically no one except for the people that my hubs met at work. I have met people at work, but no one that I really click with.

I miss my besties. I feel like we are so far apart in more than just distance. The three of us have very busy lives. It's easy to get caught up in life and just let these friendships go by the wayside. I miss girl time. I love my husband and I love my babe, but I NEED something else. I keep waiting to meet this new friend, and so far no dice.

One day.

Anyone feel this way? Or is it just me?



Amanda said...

Ditto. Lived here for more than two years and I still have the same problem. I have two "friends" but I only see them like once a month. I could leave here and probably not really miss many people.... I feel your pain. And I know exactly how you are feeling. =(

L said...

Glad it's not just me! I love where we live, and our life here, but friendships? Not so much.

Sasha said...

Keep waiting but it's not going to happen, you can't replace me Lindz! ;)
I miss you too and it WAS much easier when we saw each other all the time.. But wasn't all of life easier when we were in high school? haha

AND from my experience of moving all the stinking time, I think it takes about 3 years to REALLY fit in and make good friends somewhere.